Someone asked me earlier this week why I am going to a male relationship coach.
Well – Men hopefully understand men! But – and this is an appalling generalisation – I think they may be better at understanding women than women are at understanding men.
I have seen a couple of female counsellers and they both brought with them their own take on marriage breakup using their own personal experiences. I think men can be more rational and so more open minded. My situation is mine (and Alex’s) and no one else’s. It may have similarities to other breakups but we are still unique as a couple and our issues are unique – and have to be dealt with uniquely.
I hope this makes sense – it does to me – which I suppose is all that matters!! It is a bit waffley! Sorry!