In my heart I wouldn’t wish what I have been through over the last 20 months on anyone – not even my worst enemy. There is one person who – in my head – I could wish it would happen to. But if I am totally honest with myself – in my heart – then no. I have been through something I didn’t think it was possible to live through. I didn’t know such continuous unrelenting pain could exist. I didn’t believe I would ever wake and not wish I hadn’t. So no I don’t wish this on anyone in the entire world.
And one thing I will NEVER EVER DO – EVER:
I will NEVER do to anyone else’s marriage what that woman did to mine. I will never embark on a relationship with a married man or a man in a long-term partnership. Walking in to someone’s marriage and offering a solution to something you cannot possibly know the full history of is totally and utterly out of order.
Couples need to sort out their own problems – on their own. This may result in a split – which then alters the situation. But to actively be a part of breaking up a marriage is something I will never sink to. It is selfish, self-centred and – just plain wrong!