Actually it’s good it’s 20th April. As today can now become the day I stop focusing on a past which is as dead as the Dodo and focus on a future where I put all my efforts into creating a life which is fun and happy. Where I am loved, sexy, amusing, outrageous and all the other things which make me – me.
After all the one thing all of us should be is true to ourselves and be the person we are supposed to be – from inside. The person we are proud to be.
My Life Coach is right (!!) hanging on to the past is not an option if I want to be the type of person who attracts others like bees round a honey pot. And I do.
I don’t want a mediocre future. I want a fantastic one.
So things I have to do, and do now:
- Create the type of future I want in my mind so I have some really strong positives to hold and focus on.
- To change the flavour of this blog by killing stone dead any future references to Alex and the life we had.
- Enjoy The Journey (as my Dad was so fond of saying).
I can do this. I have to. It’s the only option which makes any sense – for all of us!!
So today is DAY ONE of the NewCaroline, NewOutlook, NewFuture