That’s what my NLP training is teaching me to give to others. To guide them into opening the doors within them to enable them to have more choice.
The work I did with Stephen did this for me in ways I hadn’t ever expected!
After all becoming a life coach wasn’t on my radar before – or at least I didn’t think it was!
It’s great discovering the tools and learning to use them and then seeing the results of putting these tools into practice. I’m just surprised that in me it took so long to allow them to happen! Once I did let myself accept the processes then the results came thick and fast!
I think what can put some people off being coached is they think it may remove choice. I think that’s what worried, or even scared, me at one stage. I’m sure I kept that worry to myself which, of course, didn’t help the process one iota as I blocked so much in the beginning.
The point is it does exactly the opposite. Far from removing choice it just gives one more. The choices one had before are still there. All it does when it succeeds is give one a whole stack more to choose from. That’s what’s exciting and liberating.
Anyway on the hypnosis front, I’ve now got as far as module 4 in my on-line course. I’ve passed all the on-line tests so far which is gratifying! The self-hypnosis section which I’ve just completed took some doing as I got so relaxed I fell asleep – twice!! What a way to spend a Sunday afternoon. I’d meant to go out and take photos of the bluebells! The trouble is I missed this afternoon completely!! Still the snooze was nice and relaxing!
I’m learning about hypnosis as I believe the language patterns used will help me as a coach. I can be rather direct! So I’m doing the course to give me more choices in the way I say things to enable those I hope to coach more opportunities to understand what I am coaching them about.