|
Value |
|
Rule |
| 1 |
Growth |
Overall |
I grow when I learn something challenging. Committed to learning about life |
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|
Me |
I become committed to everything I believe in – My Values |
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|
Relationship |
I will feel growth in the relationship if the person gives and is committed to helping me become the person I want to be |
| 2 |
Love |
Me |
I just do. To love me first |
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|
Others |
Just do |
| 3 |
Courage |
Me |
I have to love myself |
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|
Others |
To love me enough – fearlessly |
| 4 |
Communication |
Overall |
I listen and speak without causing offence |
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|
Me |
I feel confident that I’ve communicated Intelligently |
| 5 |
Intelligence |
Me |
I have to have courage to believe in myself |
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|
Others |
To say what they think/feel fearlessly |
| 6 |
Trust |
Me |
Loving me. Think before words |
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|
Others |
I trust me to know. To protect me |
| 7 |
Respect |
Me |
I have to love and care for me |
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|
Others |
To treat me with respect. When I’m heard |
| 8 |
Strength |
Me |
To say NO |
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| 9 |
Security |
Overall/Me |
I trust me to make decisions which are in alignment with everything I value |
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Relationship |
I will feel secure in a relationship when the person is committed to helping me become the person I want to be |
| 10 |
Adventure |
Overall |
Danger at some level (calculated risk). Adrenalin. Giving me storytelling |
| 11 |
Significance |
Overall |
I feel significant when I feel people genuinely care |
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|
Me |
I will feel significant when I meet all of the above values |
| 12 |
Making a difference |
Overall |
When others feel I’ve made a difference |
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|
Me |
When I feel I’ve made a difference |
| 13 |
Happiness |
Overall |
I feel happy when I meet all my other Values |
| 14 |
Thankfullness |
Overall |
For everythng when I meet all those precious Values |
