My Values

	Value		Rule
1	Growth	Overall	I grow when I learn something challenging.  Committed to learning about life
		Me	I become committed to everything I believe in – My Values
		Relationship	I will feel growth in the relationship if the person gives and is committed to helping me become the person I want to be
2	Love	Me	I just do.  To love me first
		Others	Just do
3	Courage	Me	I have to love myself
		Others	To love me enough – fearlessly
4	Communication	Overall	I listen and speak without causing offence
		Me	I feel confident that I’ve communicated Intelligently
5	Intelligence	Me	I have to have courage to believe in myself
		Others	To say what they think/feel fearlessly
6	Trust	Me	Loving me. Think before words
		Others	I trust me to know.  To protect me
7	Respect	Me	I have to love and care for me
		Others	To treat me with respect.  When I’m heard
8	Strength	Me	To say NO
9	Security	Overall/Me	I trust me to make decisions which are in alignment with everything I value
		Relationship	I will feel secure in a relationship when the person is committed to helping me become the person I want to be
10	Adventure	Overall	Danger at some level (calculated risk).  Adrenalin. Giving me storytelling
11	Significance	Overall	I feel significant when I feel people genuinely care
		Me	I will feel significant when I meet all of the above values
12	Making a difference	Overall	When others feel I’ve made a difference
		Me	When I feel I’ve made a difference
13	Happiness	Overall	I feel happy when I meet all my other Values
14	Thankfullness	Overall	For everythng when I meet all those precious Values